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My wife refused to swear with bible that she does not cheat, Man laments

A Nigerian man has said his wife refused to swear with the bible she has never cheated on him since they got married.

The man who posted on a popular Nigerian forum with username, Afodot0022, said his wife had earlier made him swear to affirm he was not cheating but she has refused to reciprocate.

In his post, the user who was requesting for advice from other users of the forum said; “Pls pardon my typo errors, I will just make this brief as I can. I need your inputs in this scenario that is giving me some sort of concern.

“I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities.

“My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that I am cheating on her and have a side chick.

“But to be honest to you guys, I have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since I married her.

“Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it in the long run.

“At times, my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that I am cheating.

“I know I have been wrong in this but at times a man will want to be a man but as I said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesn’t go further or lead anywhere.

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“So it happened that I and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted in verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us.

“The last time I intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her.

“So it happened that she needed my help for something and I did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and I almost hit her but I didn’t.

“During those heated moments she started saying things about my cheating and so on.

“She said if am not cheating that i should swear with the bible but I refuse to swear that night.

“The following day, I decided to even swear with the bible that I have never had sex with any woman ever since I married her.

“I know I was innocent and I truly swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me.

“After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me.

“Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such? I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear.

“This got me concerned and I was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truly she is innocent and doesn’t have any skeleton in her compound.

“Her excuse was that she can’t use the word of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first.

“I even seized her phone that if she doesn’t swear I won’t return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn’t not.

“This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not been me and have been thinking a lot.

“My wife doesn’t look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, it’s making me have a rethink about her”.

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