Homophobia: Charly Boy’s daughter calls him out, accuses him of neglect

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Daughter of Charly Boy, Dewy Oputa has described her father as a hypocrite and accused him of neglecting her since he knew her sexual orientation.

Charly Boy had on Friday talked about how he supported Dewy when she broke the news to him from America. 

He said through a lengthy Instagram post titled ‘For parents only’.

“For Parents Only: About 4yrs ago, my last Princess of the house called me from America, from her tone I was bracing up for whatever she was about to tell me especially when she kept saying to me, ‘daddy promise me you won’t get mad at me, or give up on me

“Many things went through my mind, one of them included self-blame (‘Did I do something wrong?’) (‘The child I thought I knew and loved no longer exists.’), worry (Will my child be discriminated against?),” 

“Religious confusion (‘Is my child damned to spend eternity in hell?’), and stigma (‘What will people think of my child? Of me?’). I now look back and find that I’m grateful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian child.”

“As a matter of fact, I now look back and find that I am grateful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian child,” he added.

“Nothing can come between me and any of my beautiful children. It is stupid to even think that having a gay child means that parents have failed. That’s some pedestrian thinking. Me, I love my gay daughter oooo. I love you Dewy”.

However, Dewy through a series of tweets she made on Friday dismissed Charly Boy’s claims of support. 

She accused her father of kicking her out of the home and not caring if she was dead or alive. 

“Gaslighting at its finest,” Dewy tweeted 

“It’s quite unfortunate that my life is nothing but content. I just can’t wrap my head around the hypocrisy. All this for a drop of clout, attention and praise from strangers just to feed your ego,”.

”Honestly I was going to just free this situation because I’m used to this toxicity and mentally I’m tired but after seeing this i can’t stomach this pretentious behaviour anymore because on a normal level this man no Dey even pick my call.

“2017 I got kicked out of the house and was damn near homeless and if not for my friend I wouldn’t have even had food or Shelter!

“Fortunately for me, I had a return ticket to come back to Atlanta, I moved back here with zero dollars not even knowing where I was going to live or where my next meal was going to come from! I was literally living couch to couch and lord knows how tirelessly I worked so I could have my own stability!

“You didn’t even know if your daughter was dead or alive anything could have happened to me.

“But on social media, you are the father of the year. You have literally put Instant gratification from strangers before your own blood.”

Charly Boy is a Nigerian singer/songwriter, television presenter, publisher, and producer. One of Nigeria’s most controversial entertainers, he is best known for his alternative lifestyle, political views, and media productions, most notably The Charly Boy Show. He has served as president of the Performing Musicians Association of Nigeria, and in 2011 was an Idol Series judge. his daughter Dewy Oputa is an advocate for the LGBT community in the United States of America.

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